When you’re planning your big day, choosing the right photographer is about more than just pretty pictures. It’s about connection, trust, and finding someone who can capture the vibe, the tears, the joy—and yes, even the epic dance moves. So, let’s pull back the curtain! Here’s a fun, honest Q&A with Rebecca from RKM Photography that gives you a peek into her world and what she brings to every wedding day she captures:
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Q: How did you get started in wedding photography, and what keeps you passionate about it?
A: So, I was a musician first, but let’s be real… there’s not much cash flow in that world. I started working at a children’s art museum, and suddenly I was surrounded by all kinds of creatives. It sparked my old love for photography—I’ve always been the friend with the camera, after all. I picked it up again, and here we are, capturing love stories for a living. It’s the perfect blend of creativity, fun, and beautiful moments!
Q: How would you describe your photography style?
A: My photography style is modern, cinematic, and emotionally rich. I have a strong eye for natural light, contrast, and dynamic composition, giving my work a timeless yet editorial feel. I try to mix of moody black-and-white shots, intimate close-ups, and grand, scenic moments to create a well-rounded and immersive storytelling experience. My work balances sophistication with raw emotion, making each image feel both polished and deeply personal. It’s the kind of photography that feels both aspirational and authentic—like a perfect blend of high-end wedding editorial and real, unscripted love stories.
Q: What is your approach to capturing a wedding day?
A: I’m all about building a relationship with my couples—like, I want us to be on a first-name basis and sharing inside jokes by the wedding day. My approach is super fun and down-to-earth, letting the day unfold naturally while making recommendations based on our connection and communication. And most importantly, I am *always* my couple’s biggest advocate when dealing with vendors. Whether it’s keeping the timeline smooth or making sure they get a second round of appetizers, I’ve got their backs.
Q: How do you build trust with your clients?
A: I don’t overcomplicate it. I just show up as *me*. Down-to-earth, fun, and here to make the experience as easy and enjoyable as possible. Building trust, making couples feel comfortable, handling nerves—it all comes down to connection, and that happens naturally when we’re just real with each other. I can’t teach how to be a good human, but I *can* promise to be one.
And the proof is in the experience. It’s evident in my client reviews and my images that this approach works. I even had a second shooter recently message me and say, “You are so so talented. It is so obvious after being behind the scenes with you now that your couples look so happy and comfortable and confident because of YOU!!!” That’s exactly the energy I bring to every wedding—I want my couples to feel like their best, most natural selves in front of the camera, and I’ll do whatever it takes to make that happen.
Q: What is your process for preparing for a wedding? How do you coordinate with the couple and other vendors?
A: I’ve got systems in place to keep me organized and on top of things—because let’s be honest, the creative brain isn’t always naturally orderly. But after seven years in business, I’ve got it down to a science. I make sure my couples are prepped, timelines are solid, and I communicate with vendors so everyone’s on the same page. Weddings can be chaotic, but I thrive in that space, making sure everything flows smoothly while keeping the vibe fun and stress-free for my couples!
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Q: How do you ensure you capture all the important moments while being unobtrusive?
A: Fun fact: I’m 4’9”, so staying unobtrusive is kind of my superpower. I can weave through crowds like a ninja and capture all the important moments without being in anyone’s way. But beyond my height advantage, it’s really about knowing when to step in and when to blend into the background. After years of shooting weddings, I’ve mastered the art of anticipating moments before they happen—whether it’s a tearful glance, a belly laugh, or Grandma breaking it down on the dance floor. My goal is always to document the day as it feels, without making anyone feel like they’re being watched the whole time.
Q: Can you share an example of a challenge you faced on a wedding day and how you resolved it?
A: One time, I walked into the ceremony space and immediately noticed that a table and a pulpit had been added right in front of the flower arrangements. And knowing my bride was a huge plant girly, I knew she’d want her florals to shine. So, before she even had a chance to see it and stress, I pulled the florist and venue team aside and suggested we tweak the layout to make sure her vision came first. A few quick shifts later, the space looked exactly how she imagined it, and she got to walk down the aisle to a ceremony setup that truly reflected her love for plants—without ever knowing there was almost a last-minute decor disaster.
Q: How do you collaborate with other wedding vendors to ensure a seamless day?
A: Honestly, as long as everyone has the bride and groom at the forefront, collaboration is easy. I believe in being kind, letting vendors do their thing, and working as a team to make the day as seamless as possible. That said, my number one priority is always my couple. If I see something that isn’t aligning with their vision—or if my bride pulls me aside and asks for backup—you better believe I’m stepping in. I have no problem advocating for my couples when I know it’s the right thing to do. At the end of the day, we’re all there to make their day perfect, and I’ll do whatever it takes to make that happen.
Q: Why is it important for couples to trust their entire vendor team?
A: You get the best results when you trust your vendors! (Granted, that means booking vendors who are actually trustworthy—if the price seems *too* good to be true, it probably is.) When you let an artist know you trust them, magic happens. They get excited, they tap into their creativity, and sometimes they even go above and beyond what you imagined—or even paid for—because they’re fully invested in making your vision incredible. Trust fuels creativity, and when you let your vendor team do what they do best, your wedding day is going to be “next level”.
Q: What’s one thing you wish every couple knew about wedding photography?
A: I wish every couple knew that their photographer is essentially speaking through them. The way you feel, the love you share, your emotions, thoughts, and vision—it all comes through in our work. That’s why even if two photographers have the exact same editing style, their work still looks completely different. It’s because photography isn’t just about the technical stuff—it’s about connection, emotion, and storytelling. Your energy, your trust, and your personality shape the images just as much as the person behind the camera!
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Q: What do you think sets you apart from other wedding photographers?
A: What sets me apart? Me! I show up as my full, unapologetic self—funny, kind, thoughtful, and exactly the kind of energy you want around on your big day. I’ve never met a stranger, and I genuinely care about my couples, which means I’ll always go above and beyond for them (just like I do for anyone in my life). On top of that, I don’t just deliver stunning images—I bring an experience that feels effortless, fun, and true to you, all while making sure you get the absolute highest quality photos that tell your love story the way it deserves to be told.
Wedding photography is more than just clicking a button—it’s about connection, trust, and creating something that truly reflects you. If you’re looking for someone who will hype you up, make you laugh, keep you calm, and capture every single moment like it matters (because it does), then Rebecca will be a perfect fit.
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